I am so blessed by what I often see in the Body of Christ, and then also often saddened by those who fill the pews on Sunday morning. Our faith is displayed or not by the attitudes we display to our world. I see love (the agape kind) often shared and received, and also I hear a critical tongue regarding others. I guess we are all a bit of both, while still expecting the Holy Spirit to transform us into the image of Christ.
We will be transformed as we begin to choose the ways of speaking and thinking that I see in the Apostles of our Lord relating to the people they served. I have in mind the Apostle Paul specifically. In most of his correspondence, he began by relating to all who would hear what he wrote in grace and peace. “Grace be unto you, and peace, from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ.” Philippines 1:2. KJV This letter has no correction in it, but is instead a thank you note to the supporters at the church in Philippi. But we have a very similar greeting to the folk in Corinth. “Grace be unto you, and peace, from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ.” 1 Corinthians 1:3 KJV That letter is filled with correction, some really sinful actions that had to be set straight. Yet, his greeting was the same.
What did Paul understand that we somehow miss in these passages? I suspect he understood that in order to get the correct response, he first needed to embrace them in the love of our Lord through his complete acceptance of them. Their placement in his heart was solid and their placement in the Kingdom was a forgone conclusion. So based on their placement, he approached them for joy in Philippians, and for correction in 1 Corinthians. It was because of their placement in the Lord Jesus that he could praise them, or correct them because the greeting rang with acceptance and love.
What difference in our life would there be if we, like Paul, in our hearts had grace and peace to all in His body – the actually heartfelt acceptance of those like me and those I differ with. Then we might be known for our love and acceptance instead of our in-fighting and falling.
I am amazed at what genuine belonging actually does in a heart. It is absolutely a key in being able to speak into lives, either a blessing or a correction. When one is secure in the love of Jesus with you, then joy is received and so is correction.
Now let’s take a deeper look at what these words that Paul used actually mean. “Grace” is commonly thought of as “unmerited favor.” This is alright but limited in its scope. It is truly total acceptance in the Kingdom of God because of the work of our Lord Jesus! That means all that is wrong with me is in process with Him and as one of His sons, I am totally His. When we have insecurity here, we have trouble receiving all the benefits of belonging to our Father. If we are always dealing with our sin, we have yet to understand the completeness of His sacrifice and its work accomplished for us. Insecurity leads to comparing and competition which have no place in the Body of Christ. So my complete personal acceptance is the basis for my acceptance of others – not their behavior. Paul gives them His total acceptance and considers them worthy of His time, whether for sharing fellowship and joy, or for deep correction. When we understand we are to receive others as the Lord receives them, all the work in the Kingdom flows in His love.
The second word he uses is “peace” and while we might expect “shalom,” the Greek word that is used in our New Covenant is ‘peace.” If we are confident in our relationships with and in the Lord Jesus, then we can trust Him to give others the same peace He has given us and in that peace (which by the way, includes all that was included in the word shalom), we move in His love and acceptance.
So, I believe the Lord is wanting to remake our relationships within the Body into one that flows in love and acceptance in the grace and peace of our Lord, instead of the constant fault-finding, and criticalness we often have toward others. That means, that my relationship, fellowship, and intimacy with the Lord will determine how I am able to relate to others. This calls for going deeper in Him and allowing intimacy in Him to have a prominence in our hearts that is way beyond what is common among us. May all of us hear the Lord in this and allow Him to remake our “feelings” and “mindsets” regarding others into a life-giving flow of His acceptance.

